Problems in taking decision ?
Do you have a problem in taking decisions ?
If yes do not afraid because every people in the world take wrong decisions at any point of their life.Some regret it,some try to correct it but the problem arise when someone do not understand what to do and take one after the other disastrous decisions .Result - he have a life full of trouble and sadness.
To avoid such problems you must be aware that - always be behind your decision when you take one.If you are unsure about your decisions your decision have more than 80% chance to become a failure.
If there is more than one option try to draw a chart ,select some parametres.Give them some marks.Like if you want to buy a mobile phone your parameter shall be design,price,extra features.Now give the highest marks to the parametre for which you are buying a mobile.Give lowest marks to the parametre you dont care about.Now browse your local market or the web for mobile phones.Jot down their price,design and extra features.Now give marks.Like if you have given 100 marks to price parameter ,when you see the price of the Nokia phone if it is costly give below 50,if it is cheap give above 50.If you have given extra features 50 marks then if the Nokia phone has lots of features give it above 25 if not ive below 25.If you have given 25 marks to design.Then if the design attracts you give it above 12.5 or vice versa.
Now sum up the given marks and the marks you have given to different mobiles.The mobile which has got the highest is the mobile phone you want.Now when you take this decision approve it everytime.Even if someone show you a better option do not bother.
If you think that you want a mobile for the first two then give each of them the same marks.
This is a great way to remove confusion and to take the correct decision.But this takes a little bit of time.
If you have to take a decision within a flash go with your instinctand as usual support it till the end.
Never repent for your decisions.Try to understand what was wrong and try to remember that.If you can not find what was wrong ask your friend,colleague or family.Dont say that it is you who as taken the incorrect decision.Give an example of a fictitious friend.You will see that they will try to really sort out the problems.
Lastly,never obey a self help book word by word.Try to get the gist ,keep it in your mind,discuss with your friends , thats it.
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